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Pearls are a popular choice for weddings, funerals, and other formal occasions.
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Rules and etiquette for each situation
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Pearls give a ladylike impression without being too flashy, making them ideal for formal occasions such as weddings and funerals.
So what you're probably wondering about are the rules and manners for each situation, right?
This time, we will introduce the etiquette for wearing pearls in formal situations.
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centreEtiquette for formal occasions
Pearl necklaces are a staple for formal occasions like weddings and funerals. However, that doesn't mean you can wear any pearl you like. Which pearls should you wear for which occasion? What size should they be? What's the appropriate length? You probably have many questions. We'll explain the proper etiquette for wearing pearl necklaces in formal settings.

In the past, when purchasing pearls, many people would purchase a three-piece set consisting of a necklace, earrings, and ring.Nowadays, the standard set is a two-piece necklace and earrings (pierced earrings).The best size for earrings or pierced earrings is the same as the necklace. When wearing mourning attire for a funeral, try to wear a direct-attached type rather than a dangling type. Of course, if you have a pearl ring, please wear it together. However,Don't give anything flashy at condolence eventsSo, try to choose one with fewer diamonds.
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The easiest thing to consider when choosing pearls is the size.The standard size of Akoya pearls is 8.0mm to 8.5mm. However, the key points to consider when choosing a size will vary depending on the wearer's height, figure, and the number of years they will be worn.If you plan to wear it for a long time, we recommend choosing one size larger.
- ●For those with narrow shoulders and small build: 8.0mm to 8.5mm
- ● For people of average height and build: 8.5mm to 9.0mm
- For those looking for a larger size: 9.0mm to 9.5mm
Akoya pearl necklaces are usually around 10mm in size, but anything over 9mm becomes expensive due to its rarity. In that case, many people choose South Sea pearls, so please use this as a reference.
Also, although it is not well known,The length of the necklace is also important.If it's too short it will feel cramped, and if it's too long it will look sloppy.The best length is to come just below the base of the collarbone.The standard length is about 42cm, about 40cm for those with a slim neck, and about 45cm for those with a fuller neck, but we recommend having your measurements taken at the store before purchasing.
At Hojudo, we measure your neck and carefully hand-weave each bead after you place your order. And don't worry if your neck grows in the future. We'll give you any excess beads, so if you bring them back, we'll adjust the length and re-weave it. Of course, this is free of charge as part of our aftercare service, so don't worry.

If you are purchasing your first pearl necklace, we recommend Akoya pearls. This is because they can be worn for most formal occasions, such as weddings and funerals. We will also explain various types of pearls that are suitable for other ceremonial occasions.
◆ Celebrations such as weddings and entrance ceremonies
Weddings and other events are becoming more casual every year, and the type of pearls you wear is not as strict as it used to be. Since it is a celebratory occasion, please enjoy fashionable and glamorous attire. However,Don't be more flashy than the bride, who is the star of the show.Please be careful.
Akoya pearlsis a classic and gives off an elegant and ladylike atmosphere.White South Sea pearlsMany of them are large, giving a more lustrous impression.Golden PearlIt is elegant yet elegant, adding a touch of glamour to your look, making it a class above the rest.Black PearlIt's actually OK to wear these with formal attire. Shiny peacock-colored black pearls will give you a chic, mature look. However, if you pair them with a black suit, you might be mistaken for someone wearing them to offer condolences, so be careful.
The shape of the beadsroundIt gives a more formal feel,BaroqueYou can have fun with it, or you can wear it in two or three strands, or even long. Like a gold necklace and pearl necklaceCan be combined with other itemsPlease don't be too serious, just have fun and have fun.
◆ Condolences at funerals, wakes, etc.
Contrary to celebrations, condolences are a solemn occasion. It's best to keep things as understated as possible. Therefore, a simple necklace of Akoya or black pearls is recommended. Please refer to the following for general information on appropriate pearls.
- ●The shape should be round (baroque is not allowed)
- The length should be appropriate for a single strand (double strands or long strands are not allowed).
- ●Colors are basically white, gray, and black (Akoya pearls or black pearls)
- Piercings and earrings must be direct-type (no dangling earrings)
- The beads should not be too large (to avoid being too flashy).
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Pearls are jewelry that can be worn for many years. They are often passed down from mother to daughter, and from daughter to grandchild, so you want to choose them carefully as they are important items. We have a detailed article on how to choose pearls, so please take a look.
▼How to choose pearls
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