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Pearl etiquette for formal occasions


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Pearls are very popular for formal occasions such as weddings and funerals,
What I'm curious about is
Rules and manners for each situation
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Pearls, which give an elegant impression without being overly flashy, are perfect for formal occasions such as weddings and funerals.
So, what becomes important is the rules and manners appropriate for each situation, right?
This time, we will introduce the etiquette for wearing pearls in formal settings.

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centreEtiquette for wearing formal attire

Pearl necklaces are a staple at formal occasions such as weddings and funerals. However, that doesn't mean you can wear just any pearl necklace. Which pearls should you wear for which occasion? What size is appropriate? What's the right length? Many questions arise. This article explains the proper etiquette for wearing pearl necklaces at formal events.

1. What are some classic pearl items?
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In the past, many people would purchase a set of three pearls: a necklace, earrings, and a ring.Currently, a set of a necklace and earrings (or piercings) is the standard.The best size for earrings or piercings is the same size as your necklace. When wearing mourning attire, such as at a funeral, wear stud earrings rather than dangling ones. Of course, if you own a pearl ring, please wear it as well. However,Flashy or extravagant clothing is inappropriate at a funeral.Therefore, please choose one with fewer diamonds.

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2. Pearl size, necklace length
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The easiest thing to consider when choosing pearls is their size.Yes. The standard size for Akoya pearls is 8.0mm to 8.5mm. However, the points to consider when choosing will vary depending on the wearer's height, body type, and how long they plan to wear the pearls. If,If you plan to wear it for an extended period, we recommend choosing one size larger.
  • ●For people with narrow shoulders and a small build…8.0mm~8.5mm
  • ● For people of average height and build… 8.5mm to 9.0mm
  • ●For those who want a larger size... 9.0mm to 9.5mm
This is how we recommend it at our store.
Akoya pearl necklaces are typically around 10mm in size; anything larger than 9mm becomes expensive due to its rarity. In such cases, many people choose South Sea pearls instead, so please keep that in mind.

Also, although it is not widely known,The length of the necklace is actually an important point.If it's too short, it can feel cramped, and if it's too long, it can give a sloppy impression.The ideal length is when it comes to just below the base of the collarbone.The general length is about 42cm, about 40cm for those with a slender neck, and about 45cm for those with a fuller neck, but we recommend having your neck measured properly at the store before purchasing.

At Hojudo, we actually measure your neck circumference and carefully hand-knit each piece after you place your order. Furthermore, it's okay if your neck circumference increases in the future. We provide you with any leftover beads, and if you bring them back, we will adjust the length and re-knit it for you. This is a free after-sales service, so please rest assured.

3. Recommended types of pearls for each occasion
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For your first pearl necklace purchase, Akoya pearls are highly recommended. They are suitable for almost all formal occasions, including weddings and funerals. We will also discuss various other types of pearls that are appropriate for formal events such as weddings and funerals.

◆Celebratory occasions such as weddings and entrance ceremonies
Weddings and other formal occasions are becoming more casual each year, and the rules regarding the type of pearls worn are no longer as strict as they used to be. Since it's a celebratory occasion, please enjoy dressing up in a glamorous outfit. However,Make sure it doesn't outshine the bride, who is the main character.Be careful.
Akoya pearlsIt's a classic choice, giving off an elegant and refined vibe.White South Sea PearlsMany of them are large in size, giving a more glamorous impression.Golden PearlIt adds a touch of elegance and glamour, elevating your style to the next level. It's not very well known, butBlack PearlActually, it's perfectly acceptable to wear them with formal attire. Shiny peacock-colored black pearls, for example, create a chic and sophisticated look. However, be careful not to pair them with a black suit, as this could be mistaken for a funeral.
The shape of the beadsroundThis one looks more formal,BaroqueYou can add some playfulness to the combination, and you can also enjoy different lengths, such as double, triple, or long strands. Like a gold necklace paired with a pearl necklace.It can also be combined with other items.So, please don't be too formal, and have fun with a playful spirit.

◆ Funeral services and wakes, etc.
Unlike celebratory occasions, funerals require a solemn and respectful approach. Therefore, it's best to avoid displaying too much individuality. A simple, single strand necklace of Akoya or black pearls is highly recommended. Please refer to the following for general criteria regarding appropriate pearls.
  • ● The shape should be round (Baroque is not acceptable).
  • ● The length should be an appropriate length for a single strand (double strands or longer lengths are not acceptable).
  • ●The colors are basically white, gray, and black (Akoya pearls or black pearls).
  • ● Piercings and earrings must be of the direct-connection type (dangling earrings are not allowed).
  • ● The beads should not be too large (otherwise it will look too flashy).


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Pearls are gemstones that can be worn for many years. They are often passed down from mother to daughter, and from daughter to granddaughter, making them precious items that you want to choose carefully. We have also posted a detailed article on how to choose pearls, so please take a look.

▼How to choose pearls




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